
Enter the civil summons. This is a crucial document that informs individuals and entities that they have been made a party to a lawsuit and gives them a certain number of days to respond. The general civil summons form in North Carolina includes a warning symbol and the bold-type statement: “You have been sued!”
Importantly, the civil summons “runs in the name of the State,” Rule 4(b), and invokes the authority of the clerk of superior court. It is issued by a clerk and not by a party to the litigation. Finally, service of process is one element of personal jurisdiction: the ability of the court to enter a judgment binding a party A recent opinion published by the North Carolina Court of Appeals (NCCOA) clarifies that litigants may be liable if they misuse the authority of the court after it has issued process.
In Ponder v. Been, ___ N.C. App. ___ (Jul. 2, 2025), the plaintiff stated a claim for alienation of affection: he alleged that he had enjoyed a loving and affectionate relationship with his wife and that the defendant, located in Florida, had destroyed that love and affection. Alienation of affection is a “heart balm” action abolished in many states but still a viable cause of action in North Carolina. This is actually the second time this case has come before the Court of Appeals.
In the first appeal the defendant moved to dismiss the case for lack of personal jurisdiction, that is, he argued that a North Carolina court should not be able to enter a judgment against him because he neither owned property in, nor engaged in business in, nor had traveled to North Carolina in more than 30 years. Ponder v. Been, COA19-1021, Defendant-Appellant’s Brief, at 4. While a majority of the NCCOA disagreed and held that the defendant had not availed himself of the laws of North Carolina, Judge Stroud filed a dissenting opinion that would have held that the defendant’s contacts with plaintiff’s then-wife while she was located in North Carolina were sufficient to subject the defendant to personal jurisdiction in North Carolina. The North Carolina Supreme Court (NCSC) adopted the dissent, reversing the Court of Appeals and allowing the lawsuit to proceed. Ponder v. Been, 380 N.C. 570 (2022).
Compelled to defend himself against the alienation of affection claim, the defendant filed a counterclaim against the plaintiff for abuse of process. As the NCSC put it eighty years ago, “[o]ne who uses legal process to compel a person to do some collateral act not within the scope of the process or for the purpose of oppression or annoyance is liable in damages.” Melton v. Rickman, 225 N.C. 700, 703 (1945). Abuse of process is a tort based on “misuse of legal process for an ulterior purpose.” Id. For example, a person attempting to have another arrested under criminal indictment to pay a civil debt is abuse of process. Ledford v. Smith, 212 N.C. 447, 447 (1937). See also Smith v. Somers, 213 N.C. 209, 209 (1938).
In his counterclaim, the defendant alleged that the plaintiff appeared in person at the defendant’s home in Florida “in connection with the service of process” in the alienation of affection suit. Ponder v. Been, 17-CVS-17308, Answer and Counterclaim 12 at ¶ 3. The defendant further alleged that the plaintiff was intoxicated and that he yelled at his ex-wife and threatened to harm her. A Florida court entered a domestic violence protective order against the plaintiff as a result of his conduct. Some weeks after the incident at defendant’s home, a private process server working for plaintiff served the defendant at a football game.
At trial, the defendant obtained a jury verdict in his favor, the jury finding that the plaintiff’s actions in attempting service of the summons and alienation of affection complaint intentionally used that process to accomplish an ulterior purpose. The jury awarded defendant compensatory damages of $932,042.00 and punitive damages of $606,502.31. The plaintiff asked the court to disregard the jury verdict and award the defendant nothing. The trial court granted the plaintiff’s motion and the defendant again appealed.